Solve it.

*i hate you! you were never there for me.

*okay, i know, i'm the problem now!

*let's end this it might help us.

ever heard this things from couples you know? yeah, i guess so. but why do they do it? i mean i once heard that conflicts or fights are healthy but why come up to this statements? if you don't want that kind of stuff why have a partner when you tend to have arguments with? duh! i don't know. i am never into fights in a relationship thing but i guess they say it's healthy. maybe it's boring without conflicts but i'd rather do the silent treatment than make things worst and ending with just a mirror in your hand and talking to it. pityful. oh well,  forgiveness and acceptance are really much needed between couples but when it comes to chances i only give, well, maybe 6 or 7, depends upon how well you reason that out though. although, some might say "always give second chances but not a third". well, i am a very negotiable person to work with ^____^

a healthier relationship always has trust, love and understanding, add communication to that too. trust, coz when you trust your partner nothing could go wrong and if you want a happy relationship just trust him/her with all your heart. love, why love? love is the most, well, extreme factor in a relationship because it has all the essential keys in an unboring relationship, including the love-making thing which makes it exciting and fun. understanding, i have a situation here:

Jaycee: okay, i am here now, be here at 5o'clock sharp.

Boy: maybe i might be a little late babe.

Jaycee:  okay, i can wait.

<Time:5:30>

Jaycee: i have been waiting for you for almost an hour! where the f*ck are you?

Boy: i can't make it babe. sorry! i have plenty of things to do. mom just arrived from Cebu and i have to pick  her up at 6.

Jaycee: oh, okay. bye then.

Boy: i'll make you up tomorrow, i promise.

see? understanding? hahaha! i don't know if this applies to all the women out there but it sure applies to me. well, maybe a 6 or 7 chance. and when you are doing those things, it adds the communication thing, which is really useful.

 well, i think those might be the top of it most-important- things in dealing with relationships. i am not really an expert but i'm just speaking this out coz maybe it'll help.

that is all for the boring post again :)